Hello everyone! I hope you're all very well! Let's dive straight into today's post. I'll always use my blog as an outlet to share my thoughts and to write about topics which I know others are experiencing too. I love to share my thoughts on here, and I know I'm not alone in my thinking, as I often receive lovely messages from women who are experiencing similar situations as myself. So, without further ado, here's what has been on my mind lately...
I've talked before about my post-university blues and quite frankly, I'm not ashamed to admit that entering the world of work had initially been a huge culture shock. Well, one year on from graduating, I have certainly learnt a few lessons about working life. One thing I've noticed on social media is the huge amount of inspirational quotes I see telling me to 'live my best life'. Have you actually typed the term 'girl boss' into google? Sometimes I feel bombarded with these inspirational quotes, and I'm often left feeling guilty about not giving myself enough time to work on my side hustles, such as my blog or my Instagram page. As much as I love writing, creating content and shooting outfits, I would rather spend time with my family and friends. Must I always 'wake up and grind' and 'build my empire'?Millennial burn-out is real. Having a perfect work-life-balance is pretty unattainable. As much as I want to shoot new content for my Instagram page, and post more often on my blog, sometimes I just can't. be. bothered. And that is okay, I know I'm not being lazy because I also realise that I deserve a break. Prioritising our mental health is important. Sometimes these inspiring messages social media messages do the complete opposite and leave you feeling, well, pretty crappy.
I always remind myself of the quote - "Time you enjoyed wasting, was not wasted."
I honestly believe it does you the world of good to simply chill out. However you relax - do that. Curl up in bed, have a duvet day, go on a walk, binge watch your favourite series and spend time with your family and friends. Do not feel guilty for not being 'productive' on your days off - because sometimes that's all you need. Taking time away from work often leaves you feeling more creative, as you've given yourself time to relax and recharge. There's more to life than work.
My favourite place to visit when I'm feeling uninspired or stressed, is the beach. I'm lucky enough to live close to the coast. Walking along the beach with my Mam & Dad is one of my favourite things to do. The beach is always the first place I go, whatever my mood. Rain or shine, the sound of the crashing waves and fresh sea air always helps to clear my mind and allows me to forget the reason why I came down in the first place- at least for a little while! Having a long walk is such a great way to take yourself out of a situation, and once you return, you'll often feel a lot better and more creative than you did previously.
Let's talk fashion. My Fedora is from Brixton, borrowed from my brother's amazing hat collection (thank you for letting me steal it if you're reading this)! My slip dress is from All Saints. As you can tell, I'm still not over leopard print. This slip is such a simple design, yet looks so effortlessly cool. I love the V-shaped neckline, it's so flattering and really draws attention to my layered necklaces. It's a silky lightweight material which is perfect for summer. This dress is so easy to style, its classic design allows it to be accessorised in so many ways, to suit all occasions.
I'm wearing my Zara military boots (again)! I wear these boots so much, they're my ultimate favourites, I bought them two years ago in the Zara sale and they're now my go-to boots. I just love their clunky androgynous style. As this pair have become such a firm favourite of mine, I'm actually going to invest in a pair of Doc Martens this Autumn, as the soles of these boots are practically falling apart!
I also just wanted to mention how much I am loving Glossier's Boy Brow! For a thin-browed girl such as myself, this product has been an absolute god send! Boy Brow gives the brows thickness and texture - which I love! I'm wearing the shade brown and I would 100% recommend if you're a fan of a bushy brow.
Hard work pays off - but what's the point in working if you don't give yourself time to enjoy the rewards?
S x
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